Ah, I was fearing this. That is above and beyond my talent. I can turn wrenches on anything and do most electrical, but programming is not my thing.
I am contemplating now, putting a switch/relay setup to the power input(s) at the abs unit. If I can cut all power here (just like unplugging the unit) I would still obtain my goal, the temporary warning lights don't bother me as they go off as soon as it's plugged back in.