Thank you all for your help..ok so I went to my ostorage locker to look for a scanner for my friends car..and low and behold I found my spare key in a box that was labeled as tools..have no idea why it was in there and I would have never every checked that box if my friends check engine light hadn't come on..but I want to thank you all for all your help..I really appreciate it..I'm glad this nightmare had a good ending..I will make 10 copies of this darn key..lol