Larry, I know you said that you adjusted the valves when your daughter first got the car, but, maybe you want to eyeball them again,...just to make sure.
Just to go over a few things...the oil nor the water is contaminated. Fuel timing is ok. Injectors appear to be injecting. This leaves either the valves or something awry in the bottom half...however your compression check would want to steer you away from the bottom...hmmm.
I know I didn't come up with any earthshattering revelations, but sometimes going over the details can get us distracted enough to fall on to the right track.
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