Pretty much yes .
My son asks me why I'm nt bitter towards his mother like he is, I don't see the point ~ she married me, gave me him and after nearly fifteen years of crazy, left, leaving me alone for the most part so why should I waste time being angry with her ? .
Guess who's 'phone rings first every time she crashed another husband / boyfriend or has other problems ?
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I remember my Sweet's ex calling me to threaten me and I said "you're wasting you time talking to me, why not go tell her you're sorry and ask for another chance, she's been with you for twenty years, I'm new on the scene, think before you act because only
she can make me leave, you're not in my big picture" .
There was more but you get the idea, if you saw a $100 bill just lying there unwanted, you'd pick it up, right ? .
@ 76 Y.O. she's still cute, sassy and lots of fun to be with, I can't imaging turning my back on this good fortune .