She was in a relationship within the past year or so. It got off okay, but the guy got a little too physical a little too fast.

She talked to him about it and tried for a bit more, but he didn't change his tune. So she ended it.

As to why she didn't date for ten years or so, who knows. Maybe a job thing or something. I worked nights for eight years, during which dating was pretty sparse as well.

Off to bed..... thanks for the posts!!