Refuse to discuss the situation at all if both parties are not present. If they are truly your friends, they will understand that you do not want to be put in a conflicting position between the two of them, concerning issues that are none of your business.
I have two good friends that WERE friends with each other as well, but now they are involved in a lawsuit situation, and I don't discuss it at all with either of them, and so far they have respected the fact that I don't want to be in the middle of it.
Mike
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