The first thing I did was check the fuse box. The relays in the back are not marked. I took each one out and tried to match them up. None matched.

I am now wondering if the relay is in back of the instrument panel. I took the bottom half out to see if I could see anything that remotly looked like the fuse. No success.
The way these cars are designed it has to be somewhere that is easily accessible.

Someone here had to change this part. It cannot be that bullitproof.