OK, I was lazy posting last night. Today I found the answers on the Beru website....so here's the link for anyone interested:
http://www.beru.com/download/produkte/stecker-TI05_e.pdf
I'd still be interested in hearing from anyone who's done this without the fancy tools though...like what do you do if the wire twists out of the crimped male connector, inside the old boot? Can it be re-attached?