If you feel uncomfortable at the dealership (or at the salvage yard for that matter) then maybe the problem is not with the other people, but with ...........

When I was young I was the first one to get to a party and the last one to leave....I was young and foolish and I loved a Beer...now that I'm getting older, I'm getting more and more introverted and private--nothing beats a day off or a nice Saturday with the Tools and being underneath my hood....