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Originally Posted by webwench
First, congratulations on making it to four years 
(Car's doing great by the way; drove it to work this morning I'm having intermittent wacky vacuum stuff, which is the first thing on my DIY troubleshooting list.) |
Thanks, and... Good! I did pick up an '85 300TD wagon FINALLY, and it is GREAT! much thanks to MikeMover for help locating it!
I suppose this is on my mind lately because I've had three different couples who are friends of mine go through separation/divorce in the past year. They seemed outwardly normal/healthy, but had differences that one or the other thought was irreconcilible privately. I'd rather thought that if a relationship is strong enough, it can survive most anything, but I'm begining to realize that this is only true if both people are on the same page in that respect. If one feels hopeless, no amount of work on the part of the other is going to make much of a difference.