I would be cautious about implementing some of the, uh, more robust measures advocated here, there is the danger your stepson will hate you for the rest of his life if it goes wrong. There is scope for developing some real resentment, on his part, if you are seen to be exercising power or control over him unjustly, as he sees it. I would leave his pot alone, so long as he is not stoned 24/7, in the same way that you would leave the occasional beer alone. Teenagers can be *********s, I was, and I suspect most of us were not too sensible at least, it's natural, and he may well develop out of it naturally too. Just a few thoughts.

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