Retired now after driving an average of 50k per year servicing bank equipment. Drove FW/RW/4W covering flat and hilly terrain and did some playing in mud and sand. Traded vehicles every 2 years for work. First snow of year play in large parking lot to get feel of vehicle. For mud and sand reduce tire pressure by 10 lbs. Best vehicle for traction is the one with the smallest engine offered, 4WD best but not worth the extra cost for the amount of times needed if ever. For your wife or kid best thing for them is a front wheel drive with the smallest engine available, it will handle the best with out thinking.