Personaly I think that people who cannot change their own oil should not own 20 year old cars. I don't feel these cars are practical or make sense to own if you cannot do most of your own work.
Notice I say cannot, not choose not to. Nothing wrong with farming out the unpleasent things like trans fluid changes, yuck.
Other forums can get old because they lack knowledge and pretend not to, or simply do not care.
Just my 2 cents, flame away I'm putting the suit on.