So ;

it's Sunday and one of my 15 year old Foster boys got up and cleaned their bathroom, then he looked in the refri and the other 15 year old boy had put a glass gallon jar of pickles on it's side with out tightly closing it so now pickle juice over four levels of shelves and drawers full of fruits, veggies, so on and so forth .

He began to clean up the mess unasked and asked me how to get the drawers out , I showed him and said 'come ask if you need more help' (guidance) and he did so now all the kitchen counters are covered in stacked containers of left overs, the various shelves are clean and dripping dry, she comes in and begin crabbing to toss out everything but then says don't touch that if he asked "do you want this ?" .

I retreated to my E-Mails and soon he says she wants me in the kitchen....

I go up there and she says don't touch anything, get rid of all this mess, who dribbled water all over my floor and sink, I want to cook....

Not a single word of thanks to the teenager who un asked began cleaning up a horrific mess .

Think about this the next time any youn person looks at you sullenly ~ maybe they have reason .

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-Nate
1982 240D 408,XXX miles
Ignorance is the mother of suspicion and fear is the father

I did then what I knew how to do ~ now that I know better I do better