A good friend I have known for 15 years has been cheating on his wife and decided to leave the marriage. They have 2 children together and married for 17 years. They are such good friends to me that they flew in from California for my wedding 15 years ago.

We talked constantly and I tried to stay as neutral as a good friend would during their divorce. Then I was invited to visit them in NC. I told them I wanted to make sure they both agreed that my visit is out of complete friendship, and not to get in the middle of their problems. They both agreed. So I stayed couple nights with the husband in the hotel where he has been living for weeks. With the approval of the husband, I stayed at the house with his wife as house guest while he left for Raliegh to spend the weekend with his girlfriend.

Upon my arrival in town; the wife, under the advisement of her attorney; changed the lock to the house. I stayed with her for couple of days hanging out on the beach while I talked with her husband on the phone daily as well.

Then I got a call yesterday that the husband wants me to sign a statement stating that I witnessed his wife changing the lock to the house while I was a house guest. He told me if I don't sign the statement, he will subpoena me to court to testify. He wants to fight his wife's lawsuite against him for abandonment.

Now, I think to myself how in the world did I get dragged into this situation, and most importantly how to get out of it. I really love them both and now I beginning to have second thoughts about the friendship between me and him. The wife never said anything about the divorce the entire time because she did not want to get involved as agreed. He, on the other hand had been telling me his affairs.

Anyone out there has any idea/suggestion what I can do at this point? I just hate to drive all the way to NC for something this stupid. And most importantly, losing a good friend of 15 years. Then again, with friend like that, who needs enemy?

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