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No you do not want to go to the Asian place. She has been there before on a date and you are setting yourself up for comparison with another guy.

No you do not want to go dancing on a first date. If you could dance it would be OK but since you can't you don't want to be seen flopping around like a fool on the first date. Dancing = Sex. If you can't dance, she'll think you can't screw. On the first date you should do something you're good at so as to impress her.

No you should not spend 5 hours trapped in a car with her. The only way to do a proper road trip like that is an overnighter. You can't handle the overnighter.

Learn how to use chopsticks and take her for sushi or to a hibachi like Benihana. Go to an art house movie. Maybe a bar with live music or a concert