Nope, that's not it. Must be the air cleaner housing mounts. It looks like a little shock with a lug on the end of it. I have pictures and will upload them tonight.

I don't understand why when I come to a stop or am sometimes just idling the car will start missing/shaking and or die. Could this be the motor mounts indeed? It has all new plugs, plug wires, and a new ignition coil. I need help here.