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Originally Posted by GottaDiesel
Before children it is easier for a person to protect themselves. But after children, the life of an honest man can be destroyed by that of a dishonest woman.
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Is this still happening? Wow – surprise, I thought we got past all this. Men take advantage with their money and women use that drive to breed in order to lure men. Gee, a shocker. We live in a materialist society where a cheeseball like D. Trump sets a standard for class and style. Some men are so inexperienced, desperate or sucked in by media hype that they think they like unnatural feeling plastic boobs, or just are satisfied with arm candy. The women are willing to disfigure their bodies to attract those men. I don't know where tats and piercings come in, but come on, know yourself and try to get away from the inept side of dealing.
Women require a security that men have traditionally been able to provide. That may be changing somewhat, but it's all about the same media created mentality that makes you want to buy unnecessary s##t –I'll bet with a little natural drive thrown in.
Be yourself, if you know yourself, and see who is attracted to you. It's a tuff market that I sort of now experience through my daughters adventures. Conversation, honesty, and truly enjoying someones company leads to good sex. Don't waste it or you can become so jaded that you can't talk. No easy answers I'm afraid other than getting a dog.
True, I f***ed it up a couple of times before I grew up, or met a great teacher, but the bottom line is talk - honesty - interest - and finding someone that wants to take care of you as much as you want to take care of them.