What is really worrisome is the profiles of some of the most successful molesters. They look like really normal nice middle age guys. The challenge is making your kid understand that bad people can look like this and to always ask you first before going to see something or taking something from a stranger even if you are not available at the moment. And to fight like hell when being taken.

After I saw that security video of that guy abducting that teenager behind a car wash or reading the story of that sicko that attacked and stuffed his neighbours' child into a box in his closet I understand that even the above suggestions sometimes doesn't help.

We've got some seriously dangerously repressed sick people out there and all you can do is be vigilant with your kids and make them vigilant.