My apporach is to focus on what to do right next time.
And to give this advice to the ones that mean the most to me, my sons.

I can't fix the schools or the teachers, but I am my childrens first and most important teacher.

My first attempts at body work came out just like you described. It takes probably more time and equipment and skill to get factory results than any high school can provide.

Fix what's wrong, your son will see the results and get the message.

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