Thanks for all the input. I was able to find a used relay fo 45.00 so that will at least give me one to play with. To answer the question as to the new bosch kit that would be no the wiring harness is different. The manual idea sounds intresting. Point me in the right direction please. I would like to make the original work because this is my wifes car and I am not sure if she would go for that. She isnt very daring when it comes to her baby!
Thanks again