Ok guy's I think for now this will be the last update.
I have finished putting the starter back in place...and guess what.The engine fired up again like nothing had ever happend .So I suspect the the solenoid and or the starter motor itself are a bit tired .Lets not forget the fact that this car is 23 years old and it has given a few starts in its life time.
So when this thursday comes around I will R/R it again and have it redone by a specialist.
Again I want to thank the room for all the wise advice and I will keep you all posted.
Best Regards to all
Dan