Can you give in secret? Where the recipient has no idea where the gift or help came from? Just Purely unselfish giving?
When it actually costs you something, not just giving leftovers, hand-me-downs and there will be no personal gain or recognition?
Just because helping and giving is the right thing to do?

What kind of gain is there in shoveling snow or mowing a lawn for an elderly or infirm person?.... Lots of people do this kind of kindness. Not for gain, but because it is just the right thing to do.
Its obvious not all of us think the same way about motives, & how to treat our fellow brothers & sisters.