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Originally Posted by raymr
Feeling good about doing something is often just a side benefit and not the goal, as you often use sex in your analogies. Hopefully you see the distinction between having sex with a hooker, and shoveling granny's driveway. Paying for physical sensations is not the same as assisting someone in need. Sorry.
I'll go out in a limb here and guess that you were never involved with Scouting.  |
Same principle to me. In any case, how do you know it is a side benifit and not the goal? I find it easier to believe, based on what I see of the world, that people do what they do for a reason and if someone benifits, so much the better as opposed to them getting a side benifit. However, in any case, you do know the side benifit is coming so the point is that you will be paid in a different coin but still paid. Hence a good deed is not done just because. It is done because you know that you will get paid. Just like I go to work. I do it because I am fairly certain I will get paid. At work, I get paid in cash. With a hooker, I get a good sensation. With grandma, I get a good feeling that I did something for someone in need. Therefore, I don't believe that a good deed is really done for absolutely nothing. IMO it is done for payment. The only question is what coin the payment will come to you in.
Guess your limb broke and you fell. I was involved in Scouting way back when I was in grade skool. Yes, I too was taught all those high falutin ideals but I saw the world and realized it was an ugly place. As such, I adjusted my ideals to what I see happen when you do this or that as opposed to doing something in the hopes that that will happen.