David, (BTW, I love your name

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Thank you so much for writing that out for me.
And thank you John Shellenberg for verifying those to be very good directions.
Would I just purchase a "convention" relay from Bosch!? What is the cost roughly? What would the purpose of this relay be? And one thing I need to get started... what are all of those numbers? 87, etc? Are those numbers for wire terminals in my car... or for the relay?
Thanks again guys.