1- Used to go to gay/ lesbian bars with an old gf and just hang out and watch.
"Don't knock it, until you try it..."
2nd- Once asked a cute waitress out a while ago & she said only if I take her to see Arrowsmith. Now that would be OK, but this was in '84 when they all were just coming out of Heroin detox. It was in an old movie theatre on Long Island. And only about 150 people. I was not a big Stevie Tyler fan then at all, and got a real kick out of watching people slam their heads into the backs of the chairs while the band played. I was sort of used to GD concert scene, and never been to a "heavy metal" one. They were not very good.