I'm not really an expert (although I play one on the internet ), your car doesn't appear to have enough damage to be "totalled" relevant to the value of the car.

At least your wife is okay, which is all that matters.

I pray that your 10 month old is fine.

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Paul S.

2001 E430, Bourdeaux Red, Oyster interior.
79,200 miles.

1973 280SE 4.5, 170,000 miles. 568 Signal Red, Black MB Tex. "The Red Baron".