there is definately a double standard.

dillying with a single woman is not considered as bad as dillying your best friend's wife.

in the man code.

in my code dillying outside of marriage is verboten for the married person and for the single person.

of course in my younger days i did it once. i am sure many of us have. it is not anything i am proud of.

i was single she was married (unhappily she said). see, by the man code this would draw a pass probably.

but not today, for me.

tom w

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