lol angel,

I read those rules and that is never gonna work. One thing I will tell you is that you should live together for awhile and see how that works. That is the true test right there. If you do ok with that and their habits, then you will be fine. Not everyone is going to agree to "who does the chores" and **** like that, that sounds like it was written by some gripey ass old man that thinks he runs the show.

If you want to marry her, fantastic if she feels the same. There are hints in conversation you can bring up to gauge how she feels about you and marriage. But do live with her, no matter what your moral standards are like "we don't shack up until we are married". If you guys feel that way, stay clear of marriage, better to learn now than later.