Good luck, Raymr. my mother has just discovered she has lung cancer, so my sister and I are dealing with this now. My mother never remarried after my dad died, so that part isn't as complicated.
With all the divorced, remarriage, blended families, etc nowadays, it has really created a legal mess (and lots of work for lawyers).

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