Originally Posted by kerry edwards

If you invited the guest in on a fine summer day and now a deadly blizzard is raging outside and the guest is likely to die if she leaves, the situation is a little more gray. But we seem to think this is acceptable because the will of the house owner is important to us.

However, if you created the guest from scratch, you are in a special relationship with the guest and your ideas count more than other people's ideas . I suppose, again, this is important to me because the will of the creator matters.