This is a sincere question and also a rant on my part. Seem TOH and I are in disagreement over wedding gift giving. The meat of the story. My wife’s best friend from school is getting married again. Again by definition is marriage number four. As usual it’s the formal church affair just like a virgin bride, this time a stately gathering in Atlanta. Over the past twenty years we have given this gal and her hubbies probably several sets of silverware (figuratively). This is a professional gal and has a great career, no children from any marriage. I suspect she has an evil side
. I don’t mind attending the gig in Atlanta and there’s some people I met at the other wedding that were enjoyable to talk with BUT I say were done in the gift department. Maybe a card that says Good Luck B*tch
but no gifts
. The bride has registered with only the elite of stores for her wedding loot. Wife says not proper to attend and not bring a (read expensive) gift. I say enough is enough - Thoughts?