Swamp- I am sorry for your losses and I surely don't have an answer that makes any of this easy especially when it comes to children. I volunteered as an "artist in residence" at a hospital and it was very difficult working with children who have AIDS. I always hated getting the phone call telling me they were gone but knowing in my heart i brought them some joy when we did create art projects is alittle comforting.

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"It's normal for these things to empty your wallet and break your heart in the process."
2012 SLK 350
1987 420 SEL