Well, as I suspected the problem has returned. I was out with my girlfriend when it happened tonight, and i did not even touch the headrest. My girlfriend was quite surprised and it gave us a good laugh though
My thoughts are tomorrow to check all the ground wires behind the IC, to double check all of my fuse connections, both with the fuses and the actual wires. To take off and reattach both battery cables/terminals. To clean/degrease etc the starter cables. IF it still happens after I do ALL THAT I will take it to my local indy and have him check the alternator/battery, and if that turns out good I will then give up on the problem! Thanks for your help psfred, it is greatly appreciated, I would not be able to afford this car w/out people like you helping me.
Ryan