The biggest thing ladies like is when you listen to them. Listening is the best forplay there is. Details about whether you get flowers or candy or whatever do not really matter. You need to spend time with her and make her know how important she and her thoughts and concerns are.

Variety is the spice of life, too. Don't allow yourself to get in a rut. Do different things, go different places. If she wants you to go to the ballet (for example) do it. If it turns out to be a fiasco you have a shared experience you can laugh at later (maybe 30 years later).

Skip through life with a spirit of adventure and she will too.

If that doesn't work maybe punting is in order!

Tom W

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[SIGPIC] Diesel loving autocrossing grandpa Architect. 08 Dodge 3/4 ton with Cummins & six speed; I have had about 35 benzes. I have a 39 Studebaker Coupe Express pickup in which I have had installed a 617 turbo and a five speed manual.[SIGPIC]

..I also have a 427 Cobra replica with an aluminum chassis.