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Originally Posted by MS Fowler
Is it any of your business? It really might be. It definitely will affect how you deal with the husband.
What is your view of marriage? The importance of the marriage vows? What are the couple's views?
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Assuming it isn't an open marriage or they are swingers, how so? He is cheating on his wife not you. Jen isn't wanting to get into a relationship of that nature with the guy so what does it matter?
Because of the nature of this case, only the 3rd question is meaningful. The other 2 are meaningless. However, there is much that isn't known like the couple's views so why bother? If they are having an open relationship or are swingers, why would they tell you? They might pretend to be Joe Average.
Again, what is the motivation for getting involved. Quite often if dogs fight and you get in the middle, you get bit by both dogs.