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Originally Posted by MS Fowler
Jen,
Some things to consider---
How consistent are you in the rest of moral issues? Are you generally judgmental or laise-faire?
Does this situation fit with the rest of your moral activities? Is there something that makes this situation different? In other words, if you generally say " Its a personal choice", what would make you think that you should react differently that in other situations?
Is it any of your business? It really might be. It definitely will affect how you deal with the husband.
What is your view of marriage? The importance of the marriage vows? What are the couple's views?
Sorry, no answers; only questions.
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eloquently said. personally, i'm not judgemental. i come from the Ronald Reagan school of laissez faire. i don't go to church but i don't criticize those who do but i take no **** from those who say i should go.
i've decided to not be a rat but i will also limit my contact with both of them. Ratting is a no win situation for everyone.