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Originally Posted by KarTek
You could take a couple approaches to this situation. One, if you're turly friends with both of them, why not approach the guy and tell him what you saw, get an explanation and tell him how you feel about it.
Two, if you decide you want to rat him out, I would send an anonymous letter to the woman warning her to "watch the husbands behavior". This should be a couple weeks after the incident as well. There should be NOTHING to point the finger at you as the whistle blower and you shouldn't say anything to cause anyone to ask you questions you may not be able to answer truthfully.
Of course, both of these will potentially cause friction between you and your husband so you have to take this into consideration as well.
The woman is going to find out eventually and sooner may be better than later...
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Without knowing private details of their relationship, how can anyone say this is a wise move? If they are a polyamorous couple, how do you know you won't be considered a snitch? Who is Jen to demand an explanation? I'd tell you to fawk off and MYOB if you asked me that.
Think that guy did not see Jen? Maybe he was ignoring her on purpose. Again, without knowing what their situation is, why chance it? What if it does get out some day?
That is another sticking point. Why risk your own relationship for a "maybe" cheating situation?
Let some other nosy person get burnt. I can't see any possible good coming out of being that nosy can you?