Contact Jeep, notify them of their dealerships lack of training and ask them where you need to bring it to perform the recall. They should also be able to check if you actually NEED the recall from your VIN.

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Lemon law only works if they are unable to repair the vehicle for the same problem several times. Since your vehicle does not have an actual problem, just a potential one, lemon law would not apply.