Hi Snibble,
I don't think anyone intended to insult you, and I know I didn't, so if I did, I apologize...and I don't know what Billybob's problem is at all. Needs to relax, maybe. He and I have never spoken, and he doesn't know me, yet he judges me. Whatever...
Anyway, who cares what I say or anyone else says...If you are happy with your car, then that's what's important. Not everyone will like your taste in modifications, and that's OK. I'm sure there are many who don't share my tastes, and that's fine too.
The majority of members here can take an opinion with a grain of salt, and discuss things rationally. Others obviously cannot.
I, for one, am glad to be here, and I'm glad to have you here.
Peace,
Mike