If you learn more about Buddhism, namely Zen, it isn't associated with death.[/quote]

while i am not a student of buddhism (nor do i play one on tv) i would suggest learning about the "four noble truths" (excuse me if i am not totally precise) and also must mention the american "ram das" aka richard alpert, if only to emphasize the title of his most famous work be here now, which is a wonderful goal (tho not easily achievable) for one's existence.

(to all those with greater knowledge, my apologies. please jump in and correct/improve upon my humble, simplistic characterizations.)