You probably aren't going to like this advice very much and it will not offer instant help. I perceive that you are just throwing parts at your problem hoping to stumble on the solution. That will cost you a fortune and when you do fix the car by part substitution, you will not know what you have done.

My advice: Slow down and try to isolate your fault first. If you don't have a repair manual, get one. They are available on a CD and in your case I believe in book form also. A manual will save it's own cost the first time you use it.

I told you that you would not like my advice but if you take it you will someday thank me.

We're all in this together Pal. Good Hunting!