Originally Posted by Zeus

I'm lucky as well - met a fantastic woman early on and have been with her for 16 years now, married for the past 5.

All I can say is - life is far too short to suffer it with the wrong partner. There are incredible people out there - you just need to find the right one. Hang in there. What you did took guts, and you'll look back on it with a smile in a year's time I would wager...