Can you put an ammeter in series with the disconnected negative lead and the battery to see how much current is being drawn from the battery? It's possible that something in the new relay is wired wrong and is "on" all the time.

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"Buster" in the '95

Our all-Diesel family
1996 E300D (W210) . .343,000 miles Wife's car
2005 E320 CDI . . 148,000 miles My car
Santa Rosa population 177,300 (2026 projected)
Total. . . . . . . . . . . . 668,300
"Oh lord won't you buy me a Mercedes Benz."
-- Janis Joplin, October 1, 1970