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Originally Posted by Dee8go
You have to find the reason for things for yourself. I guess it's a coping mechanism. This calls to mind the book Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People? The only meaningful answers (reasons) are the ones we find for ourselves.
Looking to other people to explain they why of things can be dangerous. This is how religious cults get started and flourish.
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Maybe some are weak enough where they need coping mechanisms. Why not just leave it at that? It happened and it's undesirable. That's life. Move on.
Same could be said about psychologists and psychiatrists.