Did you open the tank to relieve the pressure?? Open the cap and you will find that it has pressure in the tank(at least the three Mercedes I have keep pressure in the tanks). Until the pressure is gone it will spew fuel all over the place. (ask me how I know)
The bolt does not require much torque to seal the filter it is the O ring on it that will not seal and people tighten the ____ out of it in a effort to stop the leak. Get a new O ring every other filter change and it will be no trouble. Treat the filter like a oil filter - lube the rubber ring on the can and when it touches the housing then about 3/4 turn more.

Robert