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Originally Posted by helpplease
Okay the wife says she wants kids I am still on the fence about it. My question to all you guys out there is if you had to do it over would you have kids? And seriously pros and cons. And GO!!!
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Having kids is a full time job with overtime. If you are on the fence, I would suggest that you don't. Having kids is not like buying a bad tool where you can return it for a refund or exchange. It isn't like a car where you can sell it off. Once you start, you are committed. No ands, buts or ifs. If you can't be 100% sure, DON'T.
The wife and I weren't sure either. We decided not to. Actually, she didn't want them and I wasn't positive either way. Sure, it was a nice thought as far as having kids but having seen the work that went in made us decide not to. I mean, you can't simply look at all the good times. There will be plenty of bad times. Some of them may not even be your fault or something you can do.