You have a few options 1. is the career women...they have proven they can get their ***** together and are generally very smart. 2. Go for a younger woman...I am 27 my wife is 24...I had the same problem no women my own age that I wanted to date 3. Make some compromises find a woman who might be 1 or 2 (but not crows feet) of the first 5 things you listed and you like her so much that you don't care.