Okay, I got it - yesterday the car was hot (working in the sun) so everything was expanded. Just tried it, and everything pulled out nicely. What I thought was a screw was just a guide, doesn't hold anything in. Wish I tried that this morning before ordering the all data subsscription, it is not very helpful at all.

Now to go see if the parts stores have the f8dc4's or ngks without resistors. Fastlane sent me the boschs with the resistors, oh booger.