Your symptoms are peculiar for an M104 engine...usually the headgasket failure does nothing more than leak copious amounts of oil and see higher than average temps when sitting at idle. Rough idle? Hmmmm...the oil and coolant mix is usually an M103 gasket failure signature.

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